married:
Mary E. LOVETT
m.10 Feb 1896 Trenton, NJ

1. Curtis (b.~1878 WI)
2. Clayton (b.Jan/Feb 1880 WI)

1. Elizabeth (b.1838)
2. Benjamin (b.1841)
3. Clayton (b.1842)
4. Margarretta (b.1846)

1850 CENSUS Falls Twp., Bucks Co, PA -- Major Everham 58,... Sarah 39,.. Elizabeth 12 b.NJ,.. Benjamin 9 b.NJ,.. Clayton 8 b.NJ,.. Aaron 6 b.PA,.. Margerretta 4 b.PA. from this CENSUS alone, it looks like the family moved to PA about 1844 (based on where the children's place of birth is noted.)

1860 CENSUS Falls Twp., Bucks Co, PA (Page 115, family 868)--- Aaron was listed as born in PA, age 16., living with the Lovette family, as farm labor; James 35, Emma 30, Owen 5,.. Charles 2,.. Cate 0,.. and Anna Potts 12,.. Catherine Harper 14. (all born in PA)
Aaron was also listed with his sister's family here;
1860 CENSUS Falls Twp., Bucks Co., PA (Page 97, house #749).. "John H. Riley 23, b.NJ,.. Elizabeth Riley 23, b.NJ,.. Sarah P. Riley 4, b.PA,.. William H. Riley 0, b.PA,.. Sarah Everham 50, b.NJ.. Benjamin Everham 19, b.NJ,.. Clayton B. Everham 18, b.NJ,.. Aaron J. Everham 16,b .PA,.. Margaretta Everham 14, b.PA,.. Rebecca J. Everham 10, b.PA."

1878 Marriage Record, Jefferson, WI #1832... Aaron Evernham, s/o Major & Sarah B. Evernham... married Oct 31, 1878, to ... Laura L. Gordon, d/o James C. & Sylvia E. (J)(G)?ordon.

1880 Union, Rock County, WI (Page 17, family #210)--- Aaron Everam 31 b.PA, married, laborer,... Laura Everam 23 b.WI, wife,... Curtis 2, b.WI, son,... Clayton, 5m, b.WI. I am not absolutely sure this is the right Aaron, but online transcriptions are wrong, the name is not Everon, and I believe this is Aaron & Laura Evernham. Also likely he named a son after his brother who died in the War.

1883 U.S. General Pension files #478915 "Aaron J. Everingham, of Co.H, 138 PA, Inf... Date of filing; April 6, 1883"

1885 Enumeration of soldiers of the late war, residing in the town of Harmony, Rock County, Wisconsin.. "Pvt. Aaron Evernham, Co.H,138th Penn."
1885 STATE CENSUS Harmony, Rock, WI (20 June 1885).. "Aaron Evernham, 4 males, 1 female., all born in U.S." match - see 1880 census

1890 U.S. Census of veterans and widows of the civil war. (ED200, Page 3), Trenton, NJ (home 927, family 219)... "Aaron I Evernham, private, Co.H, 132nd PA Infantry (clearly recorded as 132, not 138), enlistment 23 Aug 1862, discharged 23 August 1865, 3 years of service."

the same Aaron?...
1896 Marriage Record #M01677-6,... Aaron J. Evernham 51, b.USA,... Mary E. Lovett 44, b.USA,... m.10 Feb 1896 Trenton, Mercer, NJ. (no other info recorded) This is also the only record I can find of this couple together.

1900 CENSUS Trenton, Mercer, New Jersey --- Aaron Everingham b.Oct 1837 PA, parents b.PA, married 5 yrs (abt 1895),... Francis D. Eaton, b.April 1853 NY, widowed, mother of 10, 5 living, housekeeper,... Howard Eaton, b.Sept 1881 NY, boarder,... Margaret F. Eaton, b.Oct 1890 NJ, boarder.

1905 STATE CENSUS Somerset, Franklin Co., NJ (Page 10, June 12, 1905) .. "(family #240) Aaron Evernham 61, b.March 44 PA, widowed, parents b.NJ is a farm hand, living with the Charles & Caroline Parker family." 2 homes away (family #238) "Benj. Evernham 63, b.June 1841 NJ,.. Jane Evernham 66, b.May 1839, NY,.. Emma Kimble, b.Nov 1894 NJ."

1910 CENSUS South Brunswick, Middlesex, NJ --- Benjamin Everingham 68 b.NJ, widowed, parents b.NJ,... Aaron Everingham 65, b.PA, brother, widowed, parents b.NJ.

1915 Hampton, Virginia, "Historical Registers of National Homes for Disabled Volunteer Soldiers"... Aaron J. Evernham, age 71, height, 5' 8", complexion; fair, eyes; grey, hair; grey, can read and write, born at Falls township, Bucks, Pennsylvania., widower, rate of pension; 24.00, name & address of nearest relative; Letetia Neuman, Morrisville, PA..... Enlistment; August 14, 1862 Yardley, PA, rank; Pvt., Company H, 138 PA Inft... discharged June 23, 1865 at Washington, DC, mustered out., disabilities; Chronic Art/Rhumatisos, mycarditis, defective hearing, loss of all teeth, chronic constip.

1919 U.S. Veterans Administration, payment cards.. #719020 "Aaron J. Evernham Co. H. 138 Pa.. reissue; April 07, May 1912, May 1914, rate; 40, died Nov 13, 1919, bureau notified, Nov 25, 1919.,.. Beneficiary reimbursement order dated Dec 17, 1919 Lutitia Neumann, 141 Cleveland Ave. Trenton, NJ., from Act of June 27 1890, Lutitia Neumann, Gdn., appt. Oct 17, 1919 by orphans court, Mercer, NJ, bond $1000."

1919 Gravestone at Riverview Cemetery, Trenton, New Jersey... Aaron J. Evernham, died Nov. 13, 1919, Co. H 138 Reg. PA.... also; in this same cemetery is a gravestone for; "Mary Emma Evernham, d.14 May 1910." is this his 2nd wife?.. there are at least 25 (GORDON) & 25 (LOVETT) buried here also.

1919 New Jerey Civil War Gravestones web site. (newjerseycivilwargravestones.org) shows; Aaron Evernham at Riverview, Trenton, Mercer, NJ.. Union Civil War Soldier, Co.H, 138th PA Infantry. died 11-13-1919. Gar plot, row G, #2.